April 20, 2007

Doctoral Fun

If you were born after 1975--  you can probably hardly remember life without your personal computer.  I was born in 1970 and I have a vague recollection of getting Apple computers in my sixth grade classroom.   They were fun.  I played math games on them.   

My first real memory of using a computer on a regular basis was in my yearbook class during my junior and senior years of high school.  We were designing double-page spreads on graph paper and then transferring it all over to an Apple, saving it on a floppy and mailing the creation into the publisher.  The beginning stages of graphic design. 

I met my husband the next year during my Freshman year of college.  He was a senior and neither of us had a computer.  Oh, I had to take a general education course on how to use Word Perfect, but like everyone else, I still did all of my English compositions and history essays on the electric typewriter that I had purchased the summer before with graduation money.  I thought it was very cutting edge because it had a correct ribbon.  I didn't even have to use white out!  Spencer finally broke down and bought a Commodore 64 during the last couple of months of college because he anticipated having a lot of writing to do when he arrived at seminary.  He never really did master the thing.  The last night of his senior year, he was frantically trying to get his paper to print as he and his roommate poured over the instruction manual.    In the end, he couldn't get the dot matrix printer to print the text within the confines of the perforation.  The next day, he ended up handing in a twenty page paper that was all connected--  "accordion style."   Incidentally, he handed that paper in to Dr. Bayer's secretary at 4:59 pm, one minute before the Redford School of Theology was closed for Christmas break.  We ran across campus, shoved the paper into the unsuspecting secretary's hands and piled into a crowded car with enough Keith Green in the stereo and enough change in our pockets to make  the eight hour drive toward  southern Arkansas for the wedding of close friends.  Spencer was to be the best man and I, the wedding singer.  Those were the days. 

The next semester, he embarked upon the seminary years  and as he had correctly assumed, he did have a lot of writing to do.  And he did it.   First with pencil and pad and then he would transfer it all (or get someone else  to transfer it all) onto his computer.  That's right--   he had not yet learned the art of composing on the computer.  No joke.  He would write the entire length of his paper by longhand and then hand it to me for the typing.   This was all great fun until we started having children.  (We got married at the end of his first year of seminary.)  Now that I had babies waking up in the middle of the night, staying up until two o'clock in the morning was starting to losing it's appeal.

Fast forward twelve years later, and all of those memories came flooding back at me last night.  I was remembering endless nights of my husband frantically ripping another page out of his spiral and running it over to my desk in the next room to be typed out on our Mac (yes, we finally ditched the Commodore) while  at the same time downing cups pots of coffee.  Spencer was supposed to turn in the first three chapters of his dissertation last Monday, but things haven't changed all that much from the days when we were running across campus with the accordion paper.  His doctoral advisor graciously approved an extension, giving him five extra days to get everything together and now the paper is due today.  At noon.   

I stayed up with my husband until 2 am last night--  just like the old days.  No, there was no frantic ripping of pages from the spiral.  Instead he kept e-mailing me,  from his office to the house, attachments of chapters to be edited.  I would download, print out and mark them up with a red pen.  Then I would hop in our van, call him on my cell phone as I was pulling into the church parking lot and deliver the next  stack of edited papers. 

The technology has changed, but not the fun that came from the sense of camaraderie that we shared.  I just hope we can make it to Kansas City by noon. 

 

April 13, 2007

I'm Off...

Well, I'm off to go and do something I don't normally enjoy doing, which is to travel without my husband.   The first three chapters for his dissertation are due on Monday, and I thought it might really be helpful to amscray, if you know what I mean.  ("amscray" = "scram" in Pig Latin for those of you not in the know...)

Actually, the real motivation for taking off, is a youth weekend at my former youth pastor's church. He hasn't been a youth pastor in over twenty years, but I guess I'll always think of him in that way.  At any rate, I'm hoping that my kids will be challenged and inspired!  My dad came up with a plan to take me and the little ones to Sesame Street Live--  and I'm actually kind of excited about that.  (I must really be hurting for excitement, huh?)  I also plan on hooking up with one of my old best friends, Lisa.  We were both bridesmaids in each other's weddings and used to sit around and dream about what it would be like to be wives and mothers.    Now we've both got a passel of kids and not enough time to sit around and dream.  We'll probably be lucky to get two words in edgewise as try to have a conversation in the midst of eleven children.    I haven't seen in her in nearly two years.

So, I'm off!  Have a good weekend, everyone.

March 11, 2007

Me

I found this over at Lisa Writes.   Kind of fun...

   

March 05, 2007

Spring Fever

You know it's been winter too long. . .when while swinging your two-year old on the swingset (for the first time since sometime last fall)  she sing-screams :  "Weeeeeee-Swing!  Weeeeeeee-Swing!  Weeeeeeee-Swing!  Weeeeeeeee-Swing!"

For the first five minutes.  Non-stop.  I'm not kidding.

It's 50 degrees here today and oh my, do we have Spring Fever around here!

September 15, 2006

The Wedding Singer

I get asked to sing for a lot of events--community events, church events, funerals and my personal favorite--weddings!  Yup, it's true.  I'm a wedding singer.  No, not this kind of wedding singer, but I do usually  get asked to sing at several nupital occasions every year.

And so I have a standard "I'm-going-to-sing-at-your-wedding-outfit."  If you for ask me to sing at your wedding, I'll more than likely show up in a short-sleeved black dress with a black cardigan, black pumps  and pearls. 
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However, I found myself needing to go shopping for a new wedding-singer-dress when I was asked, a few months ago, to sing in what is formally known as a "snowball wedding."  For those of you who don't know what that is, neither did I.  But I now know that a "snowball wedding" is one in which the entire wedding party, including mothers and grandmothers and even guests wears shades of white and/or off-white.   That includes the wedding singer.  Uh-oh.  Looks like my standard wedding uniform isn't going to cut the mustard this time.

And so--I've been on the look-out for something white.  And something affordable.  We spent a pretty penny back in June when Cole's brother got married and to be honest, I've been dreading doing it again.  Don't get me wrong--we looked fantastic, but I didn't want to fork over that kind of cash.  By the way, did I ever show you those pictures?  Oh I didn't?  Well my goodness, scooch on over here and I'll show you a few. 

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Cole & Me

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Tru & Emma

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The entire wedding party

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Ty- the Bible Bearer

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and Ava the Flowergirl

Didn't we all look so purdy?  But really, one formal dress per year is enough, don't you think?  And besides, the snowball wedding is going to be in the morning  and so my white dress doesn't even have to be floor length!  I've been praying and on the look-out for a nice white dress that also fits nicely within my price range for a few months now, but I wasn't having any luck.   I had something in mind--something sort of suitish, but not business suitish, y'know?  Everything I had found so far either looked like a prom dress or a power-suit.  Snowball dress shopping had become a real chore.

Well, I had to run some errands in the city today and while we were flying through the mall, lo and behold, I just happened to notice a row of six or seven white suitcoats  with matching flouncy skirts hanging on the 75%-off rack at Dillards.  On closer inspection, they were beautiful and they just happened to have ONE in my size.  Original price:  $200.00.  My price:  $45!  Hallelujah! 

So you see, friends, God cares about even the little things--even a snowball-wedding-singer's outfit.  Now I've got to get busy praying for a pair of white shoes to match.   The real question is:

Do you think God cares that we're all going to be wearing white shoes after Labor Day?

Just wonderin'.

August 24, 2006

Don't Call Me, I'll Call You

Dear College Republicans, National Federation of Republican Women, Concerned Women of America and--last but not least--the National Republican Women:

I want to thank EACH ONE OF YOU for your weekly calls.  Sometimes I start to feel lonely and like I have no friends and then the phone rings--usually while my family is sitting down for supper--and it's you.   Again.

I don't know if you're calling just because you like to hear my voice or if it's because you think I'm going to eventually crack under the pressure.  Let me assure you--although I am a Republican who has gone public  on her stand against abortion and even sport a "It's a Child not a Choice" bumper sticker on the back of her mama-of-five-mini-van--I will never give you any money.  I won't give you $100, $75 or even a "small gift" of $50.  Heck, I'm not going to give you $10.  Not. Ever.  You see, my husband and I stand in the small group (4%) of Americans who actually tithe their income.  By tithe, I don't mean to imply that we occasionally throw a twenty in the offering plate.  We really, honest-to-goodness, give 10 percent of everything my husband brings home and live on the other 90%.  My husband and I are also a part of another minority:  the one-income home.   So, while I support George Bush and I certainly support our troops, you'll have to look elsewhere for your money.

But if you want to keep calling me, well, OK.  I can blawg away while you chatter away.  It's no skin off my nose. 

Or you could stop calling...

Please?

July 28, 2006

Gee, your hair smells...

Evangelistic?????

What will they think of next?

July 27, 2006

I'm So Glad You're Here! Welcome!

Isn't this going to be loads of fun?  I L-O-V-E home tours.  The little town in which I life hosts a tour of homes every Christmas and every year I have a standing date with a couple of girlfriends.  It is so fun to nose around in other people's homes, looking at how they decorate, how they organize, how they LIVE!    So, without further ado...

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WELCOME TO MY HOME!

Well, before you get to my house, you'll have to drive through the little hamlet of a town that I've learned to call home for the last four years.  When you pull into town, the first major thing you'll see is this:


That's our County Courthouse
Drive a little further down the highway, turn right into my neighborhood
and you'll see my house!  Isn't it beautiful??
Just kidding.  The house pictured above is on the national historical register and I just adore it.
Here's a REAL picture of my house...

Oh, I'm so glad you're here!  Come on in! 
The first room you would see if you were walking through my home
would be my living room...
Have a seat!  Make yourself comfortable!
Well, maybe in a little bit.
Let's keep moving through
the adjacent dining room...
I got the idea for painting the stripes off of Trading Spaces.  I told my husband that I wanted the wider strips to be light green and the the skinny stripes to be darker and that I wanted all 4 corners of the room to be in the "middle" of a skinny stripe.  (In other words, I didn't want 2 different colors meeting in a corner.)  Cole did the math and I did the painting.  Doesn't it look like real wallpaper??

Next, come on through the kitchen.

This is the tiniest kitchen I've had since seminary days. My house is a church-owned parsonage, and we're the first family with more than one or two children to ever live in it. Still, I spend a lot of time here and I've learned to make it mine.  The last pastor's wife had a fetish for country blue which I absolutely hate, and so you don't get to see it.  I hope to replace it this year.

We've moved around a lot throughout our ministry and marriage--but whenever I finally hang this plate up in my kitchen, I know we're "home."

Here is where I sit when I blog to you everyday:
If I turn around, this is what I see:
And this:
Oh, alright--we're all so nosy, aren't we? I know you want to see the dishes. (Fransecan Apple, my favorite vintage southern pattern.) My motto is: "A girl can never have too many dishes!"

Moving right along down the hallway, I'll take you to the boys' room. They have fun collecting Coke memoribilia...

Next, teen-ager Emma's room. We plan on painting and doing curtains for her birthday this fall. She sort of has a pink and black theme going...

Ava is asleep--so you don't get to see her room. Ah well, it's probably a mess anyway. ;)
OK, are you still with me? Downstairs we go... The church finished the basement for us to give us 2 more bedrooms, another bathroom and another little living area. I actually got to help design this part of the house. Decorating it was a lot of fun.

My husband often prays for our family in this big red chair.  He loves this room--he picked out all of the portraits of Reformers that you see on the wall there.  Do you recognize any of them?  Let me help you: Luther, Edwards, Bunyan, Calvin, and Spurgeon.   

Here is baby Julianna's room.  When we found out that baby #5 was going to be a girl,  I decided to go pink all the way.  The other kids shared a more generic nursery decor.  I had a blast with this nursery.

What? Your baby doesn't wake-up with a matching hair-bow in her hair?? NEITHER DOES MINE--This is a home tour, remember? This whole thing is staged. My house is never all clean at the same time. (Just a little reality check there...)

Next, my bathroom...this is where I got the inspiration for my toile' blog header...

And last, but not least, the master bedroom:

Whew!  I'm tired from all of that "walking."  I hope you've enjoyed your time in my home. 
If you're ever in my neck of the woods again, please stop by.   
It may not look this good next time--but you'll enjoy the company!
Thanks so much, Boomama, for hosting this!  It's been a lot of fun.

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